I have no choice but to sell the house. But that isn't what I want. She wants to make a career change this summer, hates her current job which she feels she has had to maintain the mortgage, and we can't afford to maintain mortgage if she transitions to what she wants to do this summer (Going from teacher behavioral specialist to health coach.) , and I can't afford to buy her out.

So in other words AS by not fighting her on it. I should respond " If that is what you need" and give her info, etc... Remain neutral. Don't fight it but don't agree with it, and let her do the heavy lifting.

Last edited by IHCLACS; 04/11/19 04:49 PM.