Congratulations, about to become a grandfather. Awesome!
Your son must be so proud and happy.
I do understand your feelings towards XW, all the lies she told, especially to herself. What do you think would happen when she is unable to believe her lies anymore? Nice and friendly, the start of an apology? Of course she could just be acting and manipulating, no way to know. I just found myself agreeing with your statement that if she really believed her lies she wouldn’t want anything to do with you, and yet she does.
In the twilight of a situation things are dimmer and hard to see.
I hope the baby shower is drama free and you enjoy yourself.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
