She was checking to see if there was some romantic emotions when she held your hand. That's all. Remember she acts out of emotions, and she was seeing if she felt any sparks from touching your hand. Same thing when she asked you to snuggle with her. She's testing to see if she feels any desirable/loving feelings. That's another reason she may try to have sex with you. She wants to see if anything is stirred within her.
This part stands out to me. I have always said, based off of what I've learned, that feelings can deceive and manipulate your heart, because they change sometimes by the hour. because women are emotional and guided by their feelings, they can easily be manipulated, especially by a PUA or OM. Men test their actions out on women to see if the feelings are not only reciprocated, but experienced. Hence limerace phase.
Although their are vastly different opinions on this in regard to feelings and being deceived, especially in love and limerace, short term vs. long term, different sexes opinions, etc. I want to know which one, and who's right? Is love a feeling? Is love an action? Is love a choice? If it truly was a commitment, most of us wouldn't be here, would we?
The reason why I bring this up is because I've been reading a lot about conditional love vs. unconditional love lately. Worldly love vs. Godly love. Romantic love, which has its Shakesperian origins from the 1600's Europe vs. Practical love, and healthy sound decisions. Can anyone agreed that love has been over romanticized in the past 100 years by Hollywood, on what it should be?