Not trying to sound too harsh but you sound like a good baker cause he has had plenty of cake to eat. Along with kml I suggest checking out the book Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life. It has helped me with strengthening the boundaries with my XW.
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H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19