Hamburg & DnJ: Yep, sleeping is very strange lately. I am pretty active as far as playing basketball with my boys during the week and playing basketball with my friends on weekends. Although I am considering a gym membership to continue staying active.

Re the kids, I do spend time with them as much as possible. 2 nights ago, my s9 slept over with me and last night s12 was his turn. I do feel that my W is trying to hoard the boys to get that preferential treatment. I don't appreciate her giving me a set time when to bring them home, this was happening prior to me getting an apt. I do feel like sending her a text re my s12's tournament invite this weekend and her rescheduling their out of town trip on the same weekend but I also feel that sending a text adds pressure.

I am consistently and continuously picking up the boys from home (when they're not spending night with me) to drop them off to school. Then after work, I pick them up from home so we can train/play and we eat dinner together.