Yep, you could be right. However, I'm not yet convinced she has had that long to grieve the marriage. There is definitely some resentment there (some true some not). I'm inclined to believe there is more limmerence here then resentment... so hopefully fantasy land crashes sooner than later.
But I get your point. Sometimes I can make myself feel better by remember how fast a year can actually go by. Especially if there is SOME signs of recovery and/or me just slowly detaching where no signs of recovery is easier to deal with.
I know that even if she tried to make a u-turn tomorrow that would not work - but I would feel better (cause it would feel like control).
H(me:) 44 W: 45 T: 16yrs M: 13 S: 9 S: 6 Pre BD (not really recognized by either) 8/18 PA 11/18 PA suspected 12/22/18 (Denied) PA confirmed 12/28/18 PA #2 (Different) 2/16/19 S: 4/7/2019