Right now she's probably swimming around aimlessly, not sure of what she should do. Probably too prideful to admit that getting a divorce was the biggest mistake of her life, which is unfortunate. All you can do is put on a happy face around her, don't be cold to her that just makes you look unhappy. You need to be joyful, and if she comments that you seem happy, just tell her that you are starting to feel good again and your joyful for what you have had and what you have now with the kids. I'm not saying you should work on reconciliation that's obviously a personal thing, you may find that you don't even want that anymore. But you do want her to get her head out of her ass and start living a good proper life and person you can trust with your kids, and be a reasonable friend with to help your kids through tough times in the future. I'll pray for that TF.
M46 W44 T20 M19 S21 D17 D11 D9 BD 1/2003 Reconciled 2/2004 Contemplating leaving again 4/2018 Deciding to stay 10/2018 (dodged another bullet...few)
