I’m 99% detached and a couple weeks ago after not seeing my kids for 4 days I went off on a rant in my house talking to myself saying “really this life is better for us? We can’t sit down and figure this out? Next day I got my kids back and was back to normal. Sometimes not having the family structure gets to me.
I have a date with a beautiful woman on Saturday so onward and upward.
Think of 2019 as a growing period for you. This takes time and there are no short cuts.