Originally Posted by P_Jam

Then later that night she texts me with an issue with her cable/DVR not recording and asked if I had seen the issue before. It was about the kids bedtime that this came in, so I just ignored it. Felt this was something she should just solve on her own.

But then this morning she texts: "Hi, So are you purposely no responding to my text?"

Obviously yes, but what is the right response that sends the correct message without starting an unnecessary fight?



My XW likes to text me late at night. This is what I do. I don't respond to her texts after the kids bedtimes. If I do find it worth responding to, I do so in the morning. Night-time texts and calls are for emergencies only. If she can't figure it out through your actions you may need to tell her your boundary.


H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19