I´ve been following your sitch Gzabetas. I´m sorry I didn´t chime in earlier. It´s the end of the summer where I live so I still have a lot of work.
Is like JB says Gzabetas. You are not done with W, you know that, you are infuriated with her. But there´s not a magic bullet to make her see what you want. You need to change all that negative feelings into positive ones. They´ll help you out of your sitch.
Don´t need to snoop anymore, you´ll not find anything new. Keep working on yourself. GAL, detach, no expectations. Start enjoying your life. You need to be there for your son.
Let W free. Free yourself. You need to respect yourself so as to get the respect from others. You need to get into amoafwl. Not for W but for your S and yourself.