So what are things that would appeal to you? You mentioned hearing that she’s going out with her friends on a weekend she doesn’t have her son. What else? What gives an edge?
I notice that guys usually like me a lot in the beginning and give a lot of attention and then as soon as I become more attached they slowly slide. Which eventually makes me detach. I hate this dynamic. I notice the less interested I am, the more interested in me they are. Once I become interested they start with doubts or laziness.