Story and Symptoms of MLC/WAW Part 2

[Wolfman]

AS is right, it will not snap her out of it. I tried a couple of things like that in my situation and guess what it backfired. 2. Things to remember, if you truly do not want d then don’t do it. You will regret it later. Second, like AS said she will tell everyone including you that you want the d and she never initiated it. I know it’s hard, just be patient she is hurting too. My w said something to me the other day and reading your situation it sounds very similar. She said that she has been “suffering” for 2 years and I only have been “suffering” for 8 months. So, whether it’s consciously or subconsciously sometimes they feel we need to suffer like they did. Again, not saying she is doing this on purpose but they feel the “suffering” has not been equal.