This is so sad to read , but in time I know things will get better for you . It’s hard not to take it personally, but he is lost at the moment. Read the lighthouse post . The job overseas, well I would be surprised if that pans out . Time to focus on you and the kids and show what a caring happy family looks like . It will be hard , but step by step ( with the odd stumble) you can do it .
I have a coworker that that when through a crisis with her husband and keeps telling me to not take it personally and to realize that right now he is not himself because he is "mentally ill". While I can empathize, I can't justify his actions.
When I said he is taking a job overseas, I meant that he requested to be transferred overseas and his company confirmed that they have openings. He already travels a lot in his current position, but this is totally different.
