I would start off treating her like a cat. Do not chase cats. Let the cat come to you. Be welcoming. Some place through this process, you might need to treat her like squirrel. Anything "Frighting" will make the squirrel run off. Do not scare the squirrel away. If you do, learn from that and don't do that behavior again.

What women find attractive:
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Change the way she thinks of you:
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Understand her and agree with how she FEELS:
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You may have caught this early and get the R back to a point where she wants to invest in it.

We can help guide you through this difficult process.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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