If he brings up D again just repeat that you understand thats what he wants and that you dont want that but will not stop him.

Are you getting out and getting a life? Hit the gym if you arent. Go buy some nice clothes for yourself. Make a point to look great every day.

I dont even leave my room until my room is clean and im showered and dressed well. I lost a ton of weight and I feel great. I changed my wardrobe as well, now that I fit in nice clothes.

Self care is a huge thing right now. My confidence and self esteem have gone sky high because of the changescI made. Again my M is over, but my WW can see that I value and love myself. My changes were for me, but it improved all of my other relationships when I started to value and respect myself.

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019