Hi JNicolas. I know it's tempting. I fall into that trap, too. Listen to the wise ones here. : )

ironically, my H was always fond of saying "don't try to reason with unreasonable people". It definitely applies here. i agree with Job and Hamburg 100%. And I understand the temptation to have a reasonable convo with your W, but she isn't her anymore.

Sounds like you are really getting it all together. You are giving your kids a gift by taking care of business and focusing on what is best for them.

Re: no response from the W about the apartment. I go through that a lot too. No responses. I've learned to share less, ask less, and expect less. It's been freedom in a can.

Take care of yourself and kids.


ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19

8/17-BD
IHS: 1/17-2/19
D FILED (ME): 7/19
D FINAL: 10/20
M23 T25
OW CONFIRMED: 01/21

Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.