I think DB is a way for us to heal first then choose direction of standing or D
Originally Posted by peacetoday
This limbo that you speak of is only temporary and the time can used for your greatest growth- it is not lost time-
Great reminder. I can see the benefit of this, particularly in my situation because I'm in the home, finances are in order, and H is not crazy and really not bothering me at all. Plus, I have grown a lot, discovered a lot about myself and have rediscovered ME. I like it!
The only "bother" is I still tend to obsess a bit about his activities. But, in time this will dull (I HOPE!). And, I realize that me initiating a D now will not help this. Only time and continuing my journey that propels me forward to the new me will.
