You are trying to rationalize w/someone who isn't completely rationale. The more you try to explain to her how things should be, the more she's going to dig in. If you only get 25 percent custody, as she is suggesting, you may need to provide child support to her for the 25% of the time you wouldn't get under her so called plan.

She may drive by where your apt. is, but I would be surprised if she actually stepped into the place. Right now, she's on a mission and that is to end it w/you and jump over that fence to where she thinks the grass is greener.

I wouldn't attempt to discuss anything more w/her. The best way to handle all of this now is through the courts. She's not going to listen to you. It's frustrating, but again, the more you attempt to reason w/her, the more she's going to dig in and fight you all the way to the court house.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.