I agree Sandi. She told me she was thinking about everything and why the A happened and why she was responding. Yes it is a crutch for her and she knows it and knows she needs to get IC.

Like Neffer said I am working to help her through this withdrawal and have my eyes wide open. I am still pushing for the call, text, whatever in a non confrontational way when it is brought up. I do know that we cannot move forward until this happens and have told her that.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019