All very interesting. Yes, there are women who are seriously hung up on height. When I was doing bumble I asked a guy why the only thing they say about themselves is height. They said because a woman wouldn’t even talk to them unless they knew. I was kind of shocked. The guy I’m dating I met on bumble, but he didn’t mention his height and I had no clue until I met him. He’s 6’2, I’m 5’3. My ex was barely 5’8 and I’ve had the biggest crush on a guy who was 5’6. Height never mattered to me. Maybe because I’m short? I dunno . And to speak to what dawn said, I could not get over how many men wanted this perfect woman and then you looked at them and was like “who the heck are you to make those requests?” Double standards are a big pet peeve of mine.
Why not accentuate what you view as your good qualities? Financially stable, in good health and educated? I can’t speak for all women, but that a huge turn on. I don’t care how tall the guy is.
And this woman who just got out of a 10 year R..... she did not get out of a 10 year M. I would give her some credit to recognize it isn’t working and shouldn’t go on to marry this man and start a family with him if she wasn’t all in. That’s a tough decision to make. Some will just settle and go on with the comfort and leave when there is a lot more at stake in the end.
