Originally Posted by JujuB


Are you ok dating a taller girl? Some don’t mind or view it as a big deal. Also, do you yourself have very strict criteria on your profile? Like there’s nothing more annoying then the person that complains about someone else’s grammar and spelling yet makes spelling mistakes throughout their profile. I hate seeing hypocrisy on the OLD profiles. It’s a red flag.



TOTALLY agree with Juju about hypocrisy on OLD profiles. It is definitely a red flag. I got so tired of men who would have VERY specific (and typically rather lengthy) lists of characteristics they were looking for in a woman: model good looks, at least a C cup, certain height, blond, tan, educated, lady in the streets and freak in the sheets type, and of course, those dudes usually follow up with something about "no fat chicks". They describe these societal ideals of beauty (which, by the way, is totally fine, if that is what you are into....that isn't my point), but then when you see a pic of them, they are typically fairly unattractive even by the most broad societal generalizations, they are either unemployed or underemployed or have any of a number of other issues (baby mama drama, drugs and/or alcohol addictions, sleep around a lot) and these guys are the ones who get all high and mighty about how they are just perfect but they get passed over, but it is just fine and dandy for them to have a very specific list of traits and look over any woman who doesn't check off every single box. Talk about red flags waving high! Yet another reason I am SO glad I found Sparky.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids