that must be hard to deal with. birthdays. anniversaries. I still havent crossed any first, but I am sure it will make me think of her.
Good call on not texting her. It would be weak I think.
We are the left behind, the discarded. If anyday they change their mind, they would need to make any first move.
Currently she is in the honeymoon phase with her AP, as is mine. That fantasy world will run its course and burn, as 2 immature individuals are running away from their selves really. But yourself catches up with you.
B.D in December 2018 Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019 Divorced May 2019 H (me) 49 W (her) 29