Why would you at least not meet your friends, GF's friend? Simply because she was in a 10 year R that didn't work out? It's not like she cheated - is it? She didn't bail too quick - if anything stuck it out too long. Why not at least meet? You asked if it was weird not to meet? Not sure if it's weird but a touch odd.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D