First, sorry you are here. Your sitch is so very familiar to this forum. You've come to the right place.

Originally Posted by Madaju
I already read the Divorce Remedy and so far nothing has worked.


The tools in DR are for YOU, not to fix your H. Take what advice you can to move yourself forward and be present for your kids. You and your kiddos should be your focus.

Originally Posted by Madaju
My H is not the same person I married 11 years ago. He is a stranger to me and to all of our close friends and family members. He says and does things that he would have never done before. He has new hobbies and spend hours at the gym. It's so confusing...


Do you think he may be having an affair? New hobbies, leaving friends, and 'hours at the gym" make me think he is.

And it IS confusing. Your emotions will go up and down on a regular basis. Keep reading, keep posting. You will receive wonderful advice here.


Last edited by Grace21; 04/07/19 10:42 PM.

M: 56
H: 57
S: 22
D: 20

H Moved out: 10/1/18