Even though it is not advised to have R talks with the wife, since mine is in the final stages of divorce I just had a long one with her.. It is so crazy to even try to have one. They are beyond communicating.
I told her since she played the police card today cause "she felt threatened", i will have to go another route. She was cursing me in front of the kid (now she told me she doesnt remember) and when I stepped up she called the cops.
At the station I was told I can never win with a woman. The greek law is always with them.
So having secretly found and read her diaries with the sordid details of her sex at the gym basement I told her I am signing up at her gym tomorrow. This freaked her out. I will be in proximity to the trainer lover there.
Since I cant argue with a woman, I will argue with her boyfriend. That will embarrass her. No law against 2 men talking.
Not that it will save the R. This is now about my dignity.
Mine has also surrounded herself with a bunch of losers and enablers. In my case they were critical in my wife crossing to the other side.
But they dont know how they got to the other side. They just know what it looks like from where they are standing now. And from their new POV we are in the shitty light of her "horrbile traumatic" past. Where she suffered. And we are monsters.
There really is one script, we keep repeating it. But they dont break out of it.
And some of the vets here have given them some reason that from their POV it really was bad. Yeah but consider the source.
B.D in December 2018 Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019 Divorced May 2019 H (me) 49 W (her) 29
