IHCLACS,
Noted. They don't feel like a trigger today - they feel like hope. Not wanting to change to much so quickly. Tonight is her first night at the new apartment. But I think you may be right. It might just help start the detachment process.

Although I' am worried about how it will make the house feel for the kids. Trying to make the transition smooth. Any additional advice here? Slowly take them down for them or just pull the band-aid off?

H(me:) 44
W: 45
T: 16yrs
M: 13
S: 9
S: 6
Pre BD (not really recognized by either) 8/18
PA 11/18
PA suspected 12/22/18 (Denied)
PA confirmed 12/28/18
PA #2 (Different) 2/16/19
S: 4/7/2019