Funny, I was commenting on another thread about compatibility, and about the two most compatible guys I'd dated since my divorce (both of whom were Love Avoidants though and ultimately not available).
Sorry for the hijack juju and this may be obvious and self-evident, but what made them unavailable? Would they simply not go out with you again? Or as often as you'd like? What was missing? I ask because you say you don't want to get married again and don't need soneone everyday, it sounds like either of these guys might have been a good fit / unless it was them breaking it off rather than you wanting more than they could give.
I agree with KML on the meet ups. It's not like you have to attend every event. You can just attent one here and there. Why not, juju?
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D