I like that quote LH19. Here is a quote, a riddle, and a statement.
The only thing in life that is constant is change.
I would take them down and put them away PJAM. if they are a trigger. Be present, I know its hard. Especially with men, history, good times and the past. But this is who are spouses are today and this is who we are today and this is where we currently are today. Although being present does an emotionally solve everything it definitely helps.
