Hi Gordie - just caught up. Depression colors a person’s world with a giant gray paintbrush.

Every mature/stable person knows marriage is work. Right now you don’t have a person whose thinking if clear enough to recognize that.

There is only so much you can do when it’s one hand clapping. Praise the good actions you see and live life with as big a spoon as you can.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced