What do I do?

[Hurt213]

Hi HB_Wife.

I wrote a freakin long text about how you need to step up and dont involve yourself in validation in regards to his life when it comes to his OW. And then my macbook decided to shut down.

I am not about to start over, so here is the TL:DR.

Do not, never, ever... validate your husband when he talks about OW, wtf.... Thats weak, and he won't respect you one inch as long as you do that. Be strong, be independent, and let him deal with his issues. Live for you and live in the present. Stop being the victim - Easy? no, doable? absolutely one day at a time...

Live your potential from today and onwards, dear...