We had a good day yesterday doing family stuff. The kids had fun and so did I. H shared every moment with the OW by sending her plenty of pictures of himself and the kids. H ran out of cell phone data, so he bought some more and claimed that he ran out b/c all the photos that were uploading that he didn't realize was doing (could be true...but more so because he kept texting OW).
Lately he has been talking to me more...the anger he has towards me is fading. I'm still the enemy though because I stand in the way of his happiness with his soulmate, I'm sure.
I need to detach some more....his words no longer affect me but I always wonder why he said what he said. I need more help with validating and 180. He has noticed my 180 and mentioned 2 months ago that I was trying to compete with the OW. "Oh honey, no, she is competing with me, dear."
