I am so glad that the party was a blast for the kids. As for your wife, I'm glad she came...but she felt uncomfortable being there seeing that everyone was having a good time. When she left, she took home a lot of happy memories to mull over in the days ahead.

I'm glad your in-laws are civil and appear to be there for you and the kids. That says a lot about what they think is going on w/their daughter.

You did a great job!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.