Just skimmed over some of your posts.
Yup mine cheated too. I found her diary and there are horrid graphic details of her affair. Think the most embarassing position for a woman having sex and then go even lower. I cant describe it here.

She doesnt know that I know. She kisses my son with that mouth that I know where its been.
My mind races.

And yup now she wants the house and alimony.

B.D in December 2018
Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019
Divorced May 2019
H (me) 49
W (her) 29