My Story Part 3

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Hi Manta, I apologize for not having read your entire sitch and am only commenting on your last post.

Because it is something I deeply identify with.

As my WW also burned bridges with everyone she also was unappreciative to my family.
She was also staying in my home and my family would always help as hers was in the north.

They would give her 9 things and when she didnt get the 10th she would call them horrible names.

When she dropped the divorce bomb on me, my sister told her that I am the best guy she knows and that she wants to see us together. She called her a whore and kicked her out of the house. And when my brother in law came downstairts to tell her that it wasnt nice her and that he doesnt allow that behaviour to his wife (my sister) she took us all to the police to file a report.
I actually heard the cops tell me that I need to protect my home. bla bla
How could I explain my wife was in the wrong. Throwing tantrums.

Later on our common psychologist shed some light on her issues when he told me she had emotional immaturity.

If you google the term, its not as wide a term as we use it every day. Immaturity is not being able to empathize with another humans plight. And not being able to commuicate. They are like 2 year olds feeling they are the center of the universe. They never developed unfortunately.