Maika - I agree with this. My D19 and S21 haven't asked hardly any questions, but when I found out that OW is trying to convince H they should buy a place together, I told H that if he moves in with her, I will tell the kids. He immediately told me I was purposely trying to ruin his relationship with them. I calmly told him that no, I was just going to tell them the truth. He didn't like it. I don't care. I told him that I would never lie to the kids, and I would not try to ruin anything, just tell the truth. MLCers think us LBS standers are pushovers I think. H doesn't have a clue how far I've come in the last 6 months.
