You've now been D for a few months now last month you said your XW hasn't grown or improved herself. Has she been doing any temp checks? How are the kids doing? Have they settled into the routine or are they still pretty scattered from the divorce? Finally, TF I see you are pretty helpful around the forums but how are you doing at this point?


M46 W44
T20 M19
S21 D17 D11 D9
BD 1/2003
Reconciled 2/2004
Contemplating leaving again 4/2018
Deciding to stay 10/2018 (dodged another bullet...few)