There's a list around here somewhere, but it includes things like 100% transparency, working on the marriage with a professional, writing OM a No Contact letter that YOU approve and send...Have that list ready. If she wavers and comes to you, calmly hand her the list and say 'when you're ready to comply with this, let me know. Without it, I have no interest in taking you back.'
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Hold it... Don't word it like "you cannot..." Its..."In order to trust you, I need you to..." And you have to offer the same restrictions... You offer full disclosureand transparency of phone logs etc...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
