W's big plan for Friday was to see her BFF (who is her biggest cheerleader in all of this) after work, come home for a couple of hours, and then go out at 9 for a dance event billed as 10 PM to 4 AM. As I anticipated, she texted me around 6 that there was too much traffic to come home and go back out, so she would just go straight to the dance thing.

I picked up D2 at 2:30, played with her all afternoon, made her dinner, and put her to bed. She woke up around 3:45 and W still had not returned. The event was billed as until 4 AM but she'd been up since before 6. D2 asked for milk around 4:30 and it sometimes gets her back to sleep. I went to kitchen for the milk and D2 saw light in the living room. W had come home. D2 didn't want to leave the living room, W just wanted to sleep. I ended up giving D2 my phone to watch videos and went back to bed.

At 6 W came and tapped me on the shoulder. "D2 is hungry, I need sleep." What she really needs is to figure out if her priority is seeing her daughter at any point in a day, or staying out partying until 4 AM. I came and brought D2 to our bedroom, which W still refuses to sleep in, and she is playing on the floor near me right now while W sleeps on the couch. According to the calendar W is taking D2 to a farm today and then going out again at night. When she sleeps is her problem.


M 44, W 32
T 10, M 8
D 2
Oct '18: Fantasy affair with OW1 (yes, W)
Feb '19: Inseparable from new lesbian BFF
Still live together but a lot of tension