Your question to Steve. Most WAW go WW because just like the LBS they fear the future (though they won't admit it) and it's easier to transition if they have someone waiting in the wings. The saying is a monkey won't let go of a branch until he has another branch in hand.
You still have way too many expectations and you doubt the process. Very few turn around right away. True recon takes years. Your W has made up her mind and most likely won't look back for a really long time.
I am really concerned about your attitude towards women I hope you are working on it in IC. Like it or not most WWs have valid points. Learn from your mistakes and make sure these mistakes never happen again.
