"I validated her feelings and she asked me if I could ever forgive her. I asked her to clarify what she meant by "forgive her" and she asked if I would consider trying to "work on us". I told her that I didn't know if I could forgive her and that I didn't know if I'm in a place where I want to work on us."
It's funny that that's exactly what they tell us when they reach the WAW stage and leave us with ambiguities. That's what I heard shortly after BD. Now that the shoe is on the other foot JB42, all of a sudden they're feeling the "space" and they don't like it.
This BD stuff and experience, really is a game of chicken, of patience, of emotional maturity and strength, love, change, growth, and will. Something good has to come out of it either way.
Congrats on taking the wheel back on your life JB42. Its in your hands. You can decide which way you want to go now.
