Thank you for this. Being a good mom is what I’m focused on first (second and third) and foremost. Though I’m betond drained and exhausted I wouldn’t have it any other way for my daughter. I never imagined being here ( nobody does, I’m Sure) and it is just SO. HARD.
We’ve been married 6.5 years. We had a lot of fighting and hard times to be sure. He says he can see changes I’ve made but he’s afraid to trust it, afraid to take a chance and risk being hurt. I understand that for sure. Of course we both hurt each other, but I’m in a place of focusing on acknowledging and realizing the ways I hurt him as the damage I did. He recognizes and appreciates that, but it seems that isn’t enough. There is no other woman as far as I know. When he first moved out he told me he wanted to be able to date, so I can’t say with completely certainty. Though I can say that all evidence points to that there isn’t any one woman he’s seeing. I just don’t want to give up. What should I do at this point??
