Peacetoday- I certainly won't sign any agreement without taking it to my lawyer. Thank you for the advice.

I am mostly wondering how to handle talks/negotiations on the subject if my husband and I are talking directly. I can have it done 100% through attorneys and I will if it becomes necessary. If some of the details can be worked out between us before going to the attorney it would save money and hopefully get us communicating about the future directly. Especially as this concerns our kids!

Right now he is still at home if that matters.