She texted me that we needed milk, first words in two days.
Your reply- "good, as long as you're going can you also pick up X, Y and Z."
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She added snarkily that she had a dance event for tonight (Friday) but could cancel if that wasn't enough notice for me and I had other plans.
This was a text? Doesn't sound snarky to me, be careful not to read something in that may not be there.
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She then texted that she doesn't want to discuss what happened "right now," had never expected me to say some of the things I said, but will have more to say at some point. I replied, "I understand. I know you are upset."
Good response.
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Got up and left this morning with a kiss for D2 but not a word to me.
Tell her "see you later", it's not going to make the world explode. Detachment is not being cold/ rude/ indifferent. Detachment is saying something to her and not caring if she responds or not.
