Not Sure Where This Is Going

[Niall11]

niall, while the blow up wasn't necessarily good, some good came out of it. You seem to be handling yourself really well since then. I like this entire update. You validated, you did the right thing. I really like the "I don't care what she is doing" attitude. That will serve you very well for detachment.

Keep up the good work. And do NOT give up the MBR.

Thanks Steve. I won't give up the MBR. Last night I came in around 11 and was wondering if she'd be in the MBR and, if so, if she'd try to tell me to go elsewhere. But she was sleeping already in the LR. So no confrontation about that.

I see she's put a number of things on the calendar for April, including some with D2, which I think is good. I'm going to try to fill in a number of days too. I waa upset in part that she was always out and I, being less proactive about making plans and more concerned about spending money, was not. One night a friend invited me to a movie and I had to decline because she was already booked to go dancing. Her parents dropped by and decided to take D2 for the night, so I went to the movie. I was much less concerned with her whereabouts when I had something of my own going on.