About a week ago, my husband gave me the rest of a separation agreement he has been working on. I've looked it over and marked the areas where we need to discuss/make changes. I've also calculated how much I believe I will need in child support. I haven't brought up talking about this, as it is not what I want, but I imagine at some point sooner or later my husband will want to push forward. Whenever that happens is there a DB-approved way to have a separation talk when it comes to asset division, child support, finances and child custody?
We have never had a relationship talk post-BD. Ever. I have adhered fully to the DBing guidelines there. So other than the script I got at BD I know nothing else about what he is thinking. I believe he is most likely having an affair (or has someone waiting in the wings in a current EA) but I have never brought any of this up. I am cordial in the few interactions we have. He mostly avoids me like the plague and I let him to give him space.
I understand there is nothing to be gained by having a giant confrontation so I guess I just stay the course? State what I need in the separation agreement and that is it?
