We have been separated for 4 months. My state does not recognize separation so we are still technically married. Temp orders are in place until mediation.

Her claim for this is lack of funds. I cannot imagine doing this without a L--for either side. Mediation is in her best interest, as going to trial would be costly and damning for her in other ways I cannot share here.

She realizes there is no pot of gold at the end of this rainbow. In the past, she has asked for 90% of property and several thousands per month in spousal support. My state does not have alimony and spousal support will be near impossible for her to get. OM has no job and lives with his parents.
I think it's about to come crashing down for her.