MikeyB that really [censored] and sounds inhumane. Although that is inexcusable, I notice a lot of W'S and WAW'S imcluding my own turn selfish. Some more to an extent than others. Some are just selfish specifically to their estranged spouses, but not others around them. This is going to sound crazy, but sometimes our spouses become selfish because they just gave and gave and gave in the R. Sometimes we may have unawaringly missed it, or took it for granted. Sometimes their resentments build up, as well as their expectations, ruminations, and disappointment. My question is, really dig deep, look inward, and ask yourself. What have you done in the past that was selfish? Really think. There is a pattern I am noticing with the WW and WAS. May not be everyone's case, but I notice they mirror our old behaviors, desires, hobbies, choices, etc, but in their own way, by their own decision.
