Update, was really pi**ed at the W yesterday. When she left, she told me she would stay here during the day to take care of the dogs and be gone before I came home. Since she left, she has come by twice. Yesterday she came by, but literally right after I had left the house for work at 4am, and was gone by 5am. I drive an hr to work, and work a 10 hr shift, the drive home takes anywhere from 1 1/2 hrs to 2hrs. My bigger dog has to stay in his crate when no one is home because he will get into stuff. Well yesterday, my dog that was in the crate really needed to go out during a time she should have been here. I have a camera set facing his crate so I can check on him during the day, he started crying to go out at 8:30am until 10am when he couldn't hold it any more and was stuck laying in the mess from 10am until I got home after 5pm. She said she just doesn't want to be here, and I said why do the dogs have to suffer because of your choice to not be here. She says she loves the dogs and cares what happens to them but showed zero emotion for what he had to stay in yesterday.

I'm at the point where I am getting sick & tired of her selfishness and child like behavior. Over the last 4 months she has turned into a completely different woman, without a care for anything or anyone but herself.


M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020