That quote is spot-on. I like the way that Coach laid it out and it's certainly a powerful stance to take. Do you believe that I should go into this discussion with that list ready to go? What issues do you see with my approach of deferring creating that list until after the unlikely event that she does want to R? Am I misinterpreting the timing of that list?
Coach was very wise. He did the work to get his wife back. There was no OM. Read his postings if you have time.
There are good responses and bad responses to every scenario that may happen.
Part of the process is her feeling like she really lost you. Most LBS take back the wayward to easily.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
