Originally Posted by Yail
Cancelling at the last minute to anyone else in your life I would put into the category of "rude move".
For everyone else in your life, Cancel the minute you find out you can't go. Give as much advance info as possible. Apologize. Suggest an alternate time.

Does this sound like good advise?



I give both pieces of advise from my understand of what is best in each circumstance.

As I was driving home, i was thinking: I don't want to read this post in the future:
Originally Posted by JB42
OMG I wish I would have listened to the advise everyone gave me...last night bla bla bla
I have read those words here soo many times. You might be the rare exception.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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